Quite often, girls are not indifferent to the personality of the former passion of their beloved young man. The existence of social networks allows them to satisfy their curiosity, by changes in information in which you can not only track current photos of your boyfriend's “ex”, but also generally have an idea of what is happening in her life. And if you want to meet his ex, how do you do it?
Instructions
Step 1
Weigh the pros and cons. Before you openly express your desire to meet your loved one's ex-girlfriend, think carefully about whether you need it, and if so, why. Perhaps you think that he still harbors feelings for her? Do you want to compare her to yourself and make sure that you are prettier and smarter? And if it turns out to be objectively more interesting, will it not affect your self-esteem in a negative way?
Imagine that you started communicating with his ex and she told you something about him that you will not be able to put up with. Not only will this lead to a deterioration in your relationship - their existence may even be in jeopardy. Are you willing to pay such a price for your trivial curiosity?
Step 2
Move on to action. If you have thought of everything well and still want to meet in person with your boyfriend's ex-lover, then you can use all the same social networks for this. She may not know that you are his new girlfriend - you don’t have to tell him right away. You can comment on the photo of the "ex" or ask her some question, from which a full-fledged conversation will subsequently develop.
Step 3
Keep in mind that you are generally in a better position to start dating than the girl your man has dated before. From your loved one or his friends, you know something about her character, hobbies and worldview, while she most often does not know anything about you. Based on her interests, think about what topic you could converge on in conversations. Maybe she is an active participant in the forum of needlewomen? Register on it and start chatting. She is engaged in dances? Come to the same studio and start mastering dance steps in the same group with her. Does she work in a beauty salon? Make an appointment with her.
