The birth of a baby, as you know, is not only a great joy in the family, but also a serious responsibility. Initially - in upbringing, it depends on the father and mother who their child will grow up to, and how his relations with other people will develop. Mistakes that at first glance seem completely frivolous nuances at a very early age can be serious troubles in the future.
Of course, we all want a fairly adult child to be able to independently make the right decisions. With all this, we are not always able to teach him this. If you try to conduct conversations on this topic at school age and little by little, then it is necessary to accustom children to independence in advance. A serious obstacle on this path will be the child's categorical reluctance to let his parents leave the house. At a fairly early age, the conversation is not yet about leaving him alone - the situation is being sorted out when a grandmother or some kind of relative is looking after the baby, or, for example, a nanny. But more often than not, the child is still against the departure of dad and mom, even if there is not a stranger in the house.
If constantly going to work in the morning is accompanied by a ritual of clinging to you with your hands and feet, accompanied by a mass of tears and screams, while the situation repeats itself all the time, you need to take action. A good option is to choose the day you want and take the baby with you, show him your own workplace. To give him the opportunity to touch his computer, let him sit in his chair - to immerse himself in the world in which you live without a child, to make it clear that there is nothing terrible in this. You need to make him see his own photo at your workplace, let him touch your phone, which you use to find out how the baby is doing at home.
Of course, this needs to be said out loud. The kid should understand that when you are at work, you never forget about him, and the work itself is not a terrible thing at all and the mother will certainly return to him. If he has questions about your job, it's best to give simple and fairly straightforward answers. In particular, there is no need to explain the importance of calculating the robust characteristics of buildings, the phrase "draw houses" for the first visit will be quite enough. Before he wants to leave, ask him to draw something for you in order to have something that will constantly remind you of him.
