Many people use charm, intelligence, charm, subtle humor to achieve their goals. But not all of these qualities are inherent at birth. Very often, in order to become a respected person in society, you need to work hard, including on yourself.
Instructions
Step 1
The best qualities should be demonstrated in action, not talked about. Freedom from the pressure of the professional and social sphere is achieved only by very strong people, they will notice and appreciate it in you. After all, it is always nice to have an employee who has great willpower on the staff. Just do not go too far, do not become arrogant towards others.
Step 2
If you find yourself in a situation in which conflict cannot be avoided, try not to shout to scare your opponent - sometimes expressive silence is more terrible than shouting. Control your facial expressions and gestures, if it is impossible to understand what you are thinking by your face, then this can confuse opponents and intimidate.
Look directly, without blinking, slightly squinting your eyes, at the interlocutors. Speak clearly, evenly, what you think the problem is and how best to solve it.
Each gesture should be thought out and speak of your strength and self-confidence. It is also necessary to show rage and then by an effort of will to contain it. A person who can control his rage is more intimidating than one who screams and waves his arms.
Step 3
Take care of your appearance. Go to the gym. A man, first of all, should pay attention to training the muscles of the arms and shoulders - it is these parts of the body that have to be demonstrated most often. Buy yourself a classic suit, even if you don't work in the office. It will allow you to make the right impression on others.
Step 4
Educate yourself. Learn a new foreign language, go camping, do social or charity work, learn to cook, or attend dance classes. All this will help you become an interesting conversationalist. Stick to the topic of conversation that is close to you and do not get involved in what might reveal your weaknesses.
