Recently, it seemed like your family is perfect: you just radiated love and happiness. But time passes, worries, monotony and everyday life are piling up, and now mutual reproaches and claims begin, resentment and irritation accumulate. Many couples make the decision to break up, having failed to overcome the crisis of family relations. If you want to keep your family together, there are many ways to avoid breaking up.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not accumulate resentment inside yourself, talk frankly and calmly with each other, share what worries you - you need to understand what the essence of the problem is. During such confidential conversations, the spouses come to a compromise.
Step 2
Don't lie to each other, try not to hide anything from your partner. Lies have a detrimental effect on family relationships, moreover, any lie will sooner or later be revealed. If there has been a betrayal, it is important to understand - is further relationship possible? Do you want to keep them and live by new rules without lies and betrayals? Just be extremely honest with each other, then it will be easier to make the right decision. Do not involve friends, parents, children, and relatives in your conflicts; try, unless absolutely necessary, not to let other people into your family relationships.
Step 3
Remember each other's personal space. Let each of you have, even small, but their own interests and joys. For a spouse, it can be hunting, fishing or sports, and for a wife - a favorite hobby or meeting with friends in a cafe.
Step 4
Touch each other. Gentle touches express not only love, but also care and attention. After all, it is not for nothing that almost all lovers hold hands, this is a kind of gesture of tenderness and participation.
Step 5
Do not forget about the importance of the spouses' sex life. Do your best to fix it. Try to avoid monotony in intimate relationships, experiment, and realize each other's sexual fantasies.
Step 6
Try to spend time together more often, take a walk around the city, have a picnic in nature, go to a movie or a restaurant, be sure to talk about different topics, or have a romantic dinner at home and make love. Such days bring spouses very close and strengthen the marriage. If you have children, arrange a joint trip to the zoo, circus, to a children's show or just to the playground.
