Even young children can say hurtful or bad words. Childish rudeness often baffles parents. It is necessary to understand the reasons for this behavior and try to wean the child from being rude.
Instructions
Step 1
Analyze the situation, talk to your child and try to find out why he is behaving this way. Sometimes children simply shout out offensive words, subconsciously feeling their negative connotation, but not fully understanding the meaning of such phrases. In this way, they express dissatisfaction, anger or resentment. It is possible that they are simply copying similar behavior after seeing the same in kindergarten or on a walk in the park.
Step 2
If a little rude person has a younger sister or brother, then rudeness may be the result of childish jealousy. Try to spend the same amount of time with both children. Talk to your child and tell him that he has nothing to worry about, and you love him as much as you did before the baby came into the family.
Step 3
The best way to wean children from being rude is by example. If you allow yourself to be tactless or even cruel to your child, you will receive similar communication in return. Talk to him the way you want him to talk to you and the people around him. Teach him to be polite, respect other people's opinions and say "thank you", "please", "sorry."
Step 4
Talk to your child, explain to him that using harsh and bad words, he offends people. Say that no one likes rude people, and if he continues to behave this way, then no one will become friends with him and communicate.
Step 5
Do not shout or be rude to your child in response to his insolence. Often, with such behavior, he tries to attract your attention and piss you off. Seeing that you broke off, the child will become insolent and snap back even more. Never use force. Physically punishing children cannot instill respect in them. This will only intimidate or embitter the child, but will not make him polite. Only sincere conversations, clarifications and personal example will help you smooth out the conflict and wean the child from being rude.
