If a woman cries, the man loses first confidence, then rationality and, finally, patience. Try not to follow this axiom when your loved one cries and urgently needs to comfort her.
Instructions
Step 1
Think about what might have caused her tears. Just do not question her with preference and do not voice any assumptions. This can cause another burst of sobs or, on the contrary, a furious rage directed against you.
Step 2
When looking for the cause of women's tears, always start with yourself. Maybe you have been paying too little attention to her lately? Or did she (or one of her relatives) get sick? Tears can be caused by troubles at work. Remember if she has recently complained about her coworkers or her boss, or whether she took work home. The most difficult option is when one of her close relatives died suddenly. It depends only on you whether you get off with duty condolences or show patience and endurance and help her cope with grief.
Step 3
If you've started to pay less attention to her because of work or school, from which you will not be able to take a break in the near future, show your concern for her in your day-to-day relationship. Any work or a busy study schedule is not yet a reason not to please her with some kind of joint action (for example, go shopping with her or cook dinner together).
Step 4
If she is ill, the methods and methods of comfort will depend on the severity of the illness and on your tact. If she has a common cold, give her hot tea with raspberries or lemon, give her pills, put her in bed, wrap her up warmly and kiss. So that she does not feel bored and lonely without you, buy her some interesting books, CDs with funny films. If she is a little sentimental, present her with a huge stuffed toy and a "Get well soon" card, in which write that you miss her very much.
Step 5
If the illness is protracted or an operation is required, try to distract it from gloomy thoughts by offering together (necessarily together!) To do something interesting and useful at the same time. Any option can be suitable here, up to cross-stitching or cutting with a jigsaw. However, any activity or game will need to have an element of competition. This is necessary in order for the beloved to feel the strength to cope with the disease.
Step 6
Helping to cope with problems at work is not easy. Do not tell her that you will deal with your beloved's co-workers (except for harassment). Just tell her that in any case you will always be there and together solve any issues, even if she decides to leave the service.
Step 7
If one of your beloved's relatives fell seriously ill or died, the best consolation would be silence. Just sit down next to her, take her palm and squeeze in your hand. If you can help something financially, do it, but do not start a conversation about it right away.
