Many parents are deeply concerned about the school performance of their children. In pursuit of good grades, you can forget that they are not at all an indicator of education. They do not assess knowledge, but only a combination of factors that the student has encountered. Therefore, cherished fives should not become something for which it is really worth learning.
Instructions
Step 1
Find the reason for the failure. It does not happen that a child does poorly in absolutely all subjects. Even if he likes drawing or physical education. Identify exactly those items for which there are problems. Take a close look at which topics are challenging. For example, there are problems with punctuation, but everything is more or less good with spelling. Or the spelling of English words is good, but the child cannot remember them. Such a detailed analysis will help you understand what exactly you will have to work hard on and eliminate psychological problems.
Step 2
Talk to your teacher. Maybe the reason for the failure of the child lies in the personal relationship with the teacher. In this case, tactfully tell the teacher about the child's problems. Together, you must find a way out of this situation. Maybe the child did not improve relations with classmates, and all the lessons for him turn into torture. Or he is not very active in the lesson because of his shyness and this is not about knowledge. It is just that the student must be assured of his own strengths and help him to be liberated.
Step 3
Don't make homework torture or misdemeanor. You need to help your child catch up, not make him feel guilty about not living up to your expectations. Remind him of past achievements, reassure him that he will succeed and you love him absolutely anything, not successful and with good grades.
Step 4
If you cannot help your child in certain subjects on your own, invite a tutor. Often with strangers, children are liberated and think more freely. Yes, and a person who is paid money for his work will not allow himself free behavior and will be engaged in lessons during the allotted hour.
Step 5
Don't make your child aware of the problem. He should not be locked in the endless cramming of the subject - no one has canceled childhood. And the atmosphere in the family greatly influences the child's academic performance. Don't limit all your conversations to school.
