The most romantic and seemingly very strong relationships require "therapy." At different stages of life together, a couple goes through certain stages of the development of relations - from crisis to the most tender. It is important not to let the fire of love go out, from which it all began.
Instructions
Step 1
Clear up any misunderstandings. The habit of experiencing everything deep inside, not discussing problems with a partner, leads to the emergence of coldness between two loving people. Prolonged internal conflict can lead to severe depression and a desire to end the relationship. Learn to communicate openly and confidentially, do not harbor resentment and seek help from your closest person. The more sincere and open your relationship is, the longer it will last.
Step 2
Be attentive to each other. Compliment your partner, admire his personal qualities, work achievements, and problem-solving skills. You need to evaluate what partners do for each other in everyday, everyday life every day - praise your wife for a delicious dinner, thank your husband for a nailed shelf, etc. Try to pay attention to each other, and you will remain close.
Step 3
Surprise each other. Surprising does not mean presenting chic and expensive gifts. Small surprises, expressions of concern, unexpected meetings and trips - save your relationship from routine. Give gifts - small but meaningful only for the two of you. Choose things that are intimate and practical, and put a surprised smile on your partner's face.
Step 4
Give each other some free time. Spend evenings and weekends together - not all, but there should be enough of them so that each of you does not feel left out and abandoned. There should be hobbies and hobbies in your life, but canceling one meeting with friends and inviting a partner for a walk is not so difficult. The opportunity to be alone, discuss problems and share impressions is necessary - simple communication sometimes means no less than a declaration of love. Each of you will be pleased to know that he has a special place in the life of your partner.
Step 5
Separate responsibilities. At the very beginning of a relationship, few people think about what everyday life is and what consequences it carries for relationships. Many couples do not pass the test at this stage, when household lapping takes place. If in the family someone does everything around the house, and someone does nothing, then the conflict is inevitable. Learn to solve everyday problems together, share responsibility, turn banal shopping trips into an opportunity to be together.
