In the life of almost any young man, from time to time there have been obscure situations in which his girlfriend does not call or write SMS. If this can still be explained by the fact that the girl simply does not want to take the initiative to communicate herself, fearing to seem unnecessarily intrusive, then how can one explain the fact that she does not answer her friend's calls and messages?
Instructions
Step 1
Think carefully about what you could have done wrong. Sometimes it is not so easy to understand what kind of mistake you made, but surely something in your behavior seemed so unacceptable to the girl that now she does not want to get in touch with you at all. Perhaps she can no longer hide the annoyance that your completely illiterate SMS causes, or you were overly intrusive. Alternatively, she can no longer tolerate your constant unreasonable jealousy or tendency to control her movements and behavior. There can be many reasons for a girl to ignore a guy, and some of them may seem completely absurd to a representative of the stronger sex, while for her they are of great importance.
Step 2
Ask yourself how important it is for you to reconnect with this girl. Are you willing to take the initiative to reconnect just because you feel hurt and want to prove to her that you are actually the best guy she has ever met? Or maybe this girl really cares for you and you can go to great lengths in order to return her affection to you? If you answered “yes” to the second question, then it is in this case that it will be rational to take certain steps to renew your relationship.
Step 3
Keep in mind - almost all women are very curious. Even if she doesn't reply to your emails and messages, that doesn't mean that she doesn't read them. Write to the girl about how dear she is to you, how good and calm you felt around her, and how you miss her company now. Ask her to give you the opportunity to correct mistakes you have made in the past. If this girl is at least in the least indifferent to your person, then her heart will certainly tremble and she will get in touch with you.
Step 4
Try to reconcile if the girl still avoids you. Surely she has good reasons for that, which you will sooner or later find out about. Perhaps she met someone at all, fell in love with him and is now preparing to marry him. Or maybe the wedding has already taken place and they are spending their honeymoon somewhere on distant islands? In any case, if the girl does not make contact with you, do your best to switch your attention to another object. You have only one life, and in no case should you devote it to those who cannot and do not want to appreciate it.
