Jealousy is okay, unless, of course, there is too much of it. "Jealous means love" - so they say among the people. And if they are jealous of the past of their loved one, then this is already a psychological problem that needs to be solved, otherwise it can turn into pathology. One can get rid of jealousy of the past, psychologists say.
Instructions
Step 1
First, you need to come to terms with the fact that your loved one had a past. If it did exist, then there is no getting away from it. But your man chose you, and that already means a lot. What was, what was. What is at the moment is much more important. To be jealous of something that no longer exists is stupid.
Step 2
Some husbands constantly compare their wives to their ex-girlfriends. This is not pleasant for wives. But for the general well-being of the family, you will have to come to terms with this for a while. And then you should talk to your husband, tell him that such comparisons give you unpleasant sensations. If a person treats you with love, he will certainly take into account your wishes. Just do not need hysterics and anguish, it will not lead to anything good.
Step 3
Someday your husband himself will stop comparing you to his former women. This will happen without fail. But until that happens, try to distract yourself. Find something to your liking, let it be some kind of hobby or learning a foreign language. In any case, this will only benefit you. It will be much more interesting for your loved one to communicate with you, and he will definitely stop comparing you with someone.
Step 4
Or maybe you are simply not sure of your abilities? Then the situation needs to be changed urgently. Learn to cook, if you have not been able to until now, change your hairstyle or your image in general. Meet your husband from work with a new hairstyle and a delicious dinner on the table. When you have confidence in your abilities, you will have less reason to be jealous of your husband's past.
Step 5
If all else fails, and you are still jealous of your husband's past, then consult a psychologist. He will help you understand the essence of the problem, which, perhaps, sits deep in your mind, and you yourself will not be able to cope with it.
