Even seemingly ideal couples can face problems with mutual understanding. As a rule, these problems can be solved, but in some cases, improper female behavior can lead to a breakup, even if the man tries not to pay attention to him at first.
The main mistakes in behavior that women most often make, destroying relationships:
Suspicions
Being overly suspicious can ruin even the strongest relationships and strongest feelings. Questions "where", "with whom", constant calls to find out the whereabouts of a partner, searches for love notes in his pockets, checking mail, phone, in general, any attempt to deprive the other half of his personal space leads to the fact that a man at some point gets tired of it. The feeling of mistrust on the part of a woman makes a man become secretive even without a relationship on the side, while a woman in this case begins to dig even deeper. Trust your man, and if you suspect, do not go to extremes. Talk to your husband heart to heart and stop harassing him with your excessive curiosity, which over time can turn into a manic habit.
Comparisons
Comparisons with other men not in favor of your husband will definitely lead to a breakup. A man should be unique, one and only, and comparisons with others lead to the fact that he will begin to doubt himself and restore a sense of confidence with the help of someone else. Remember that you also have shortcomings, which would be extremely unpleasant to hear about from the lips of your beloved man.
Complaints
When problem situations arise with her husband, many women begin to complain about him to her friends, mothers, and colleagues. Well, they, in turn, will protect the man and advise you to talk to him and decide everything among themselves, and not wash dirty linen in public. But in some cases, to please your husband, they will begin to scold and inflame the situation to such an extent that 10 far-fetched men will be added to one insignificant shortcoming. Solve problems together, perhaps the man unconsciously does what annoys you, without noticing it, and after a calm conversation he will get rid of the bad habit.
Scandals
Quarrels and scandals from scratch also destroy relationships. Scattered socks or other things can be collected in a couple of minutes and forget about it, and it will be very difficult, and sometimes impossible, to restore a relationship ruined by constant tantrums. Pay attention to your shortcomings, perhaps your husband is annoyed by your hair in the bathroom in the sink or on the floor, but he does not turn one hair into a scandal, but simply does not pay attention to it so as not to provoke a quarrel.
Inability to forgive
Very often, after a conflict situation that could be forgotten and live happily on, a woman begins to recall the insult at every opportunity, even when the man has already asked for forgiveness. This behavior will again and again lead to quarrels, and therefore to new grievances, the memories of which will grow like a snowball. If you were offended, but asked for forgiveness, forget about this offense forever.
