Cheating on a husband is not only a blow to self-esteem, but also disappointment in one's own relationship. It’s very difficult to decide what the future holds for your family after that. Of course, it all depends on how you want to live on - to forgive or part. Try to make the right decision.
Instructions
Step 1
If you understand that you can forgive the betrayal and want to continue living with your beloved man, you need to understand the motives of his betrayal. Perhaps a man thinks that sex on the side is "nothing special" and that is how most families live. Try to explain to him that you are not satisfied with this state of affairs and loyalty for you is not just a beautiful word. Make it clear to your husband that you have forgiven him the first and last time. If he really loves you, then this will never happen again.
Step 2
Maybe your relationship has worsened lately, and your feelings have cooled down. This is often the reason for cheating, because the man no longer feels the passion that was before. If you have cooled down to him physically, then this is what could have pushed your husband to such an act. Rare intimacy makes a man think that sex must be won. Therefore, after conquering another woman, he begins to feel like a hero. Breathe new life into your family relationships and the situation will change for the better.
Step 3
Midlife crisis in men is often accompanied by infidelity. During this period, they become not as sexually active as before, not as attractive (in their opinion). A man wants to prove first of all to himself that everything is still good and there is nothing to worry about. Perhaps you just need to get over it. Your husband will walk up and love you with renewed vigor. Reassure yourself that he doesn't need anyone but you. This is just a feature of the entire male sex.
Step 4
It is likely that some major setback has occurred in your husband's life, and you have not been able to properly support him. Sometimes men behave like children, and a woman whom they trust is perceived as a mother. He needed you very much and was not around. So he decided to find support elsewhere. Next time, be more cautious and considerate of your husband.
