Family life is not always successful, and after a few years of marriage, the wife feels that she has lost interest in her man. Only a truly loving woman can resist the pressure of everyday life and maintain love for many years.
Instructions
Step 1
Maintain romance in your relationship. Do not get carried away with evenings on the couch under a TV show and meetings with relatives a couple of times a week. Do not forget about those moments that you can give each other. Go to restaurants to be alone there, have a candlelit dinner with unusual dishes, open a bottle of champagne for every memorable date of your relationship. Do everything that you did at the very beginning of the creation of your union, and feelings will not leave you for many years.
Step 2
Don't let a man see you as a housekeeper. An excellent hostess, of course, will be appreciated, but it is not known how you yourself will feel in this role in a few years. First of all, you must be a woman. It is she who will meet her husband from work, wake up with him in the morning and lure him into bed in the evening. If your husband regards you as a cook and dishwasher, your feelings for him will not last long.
Step 3
Maintain a sexual relationship. Intimacy plays an important role in maintaining feelings, because it is this side of the relationship that is your personal, known only to two. Try new places and positions in sex, do not hesitate to discuss your desires. The fire must be maintained, and without your participation nothing will come of it.
Step 4
Leave room for privacy. If a man fills your whole life with himself, you should not be surprised at the rapid cooling in the relationship. Find an activity that will take a few hours a week and leave home with a light heart because it will benefit your marriage. Meeting with girlfriends, learning languages, swimming and gymnastics - all these activities will help you leave a piece of yourself outside of your relationship with your husband.
Step 5
Have short breakups. It's good when one of you goes on a business trip several times a year. If the job does not provide such a chance, you will have to act independently. For example, go with your friends to another city or country, take a ride with your children on an excursion that takes two or three days, attend courses that require moving for several days. In separation, your feelings become stronger, and you have the opportunity to feel all your love.
