How to please a man, a girl, an employer?
It is known that the first impression of a person is very difficult to change in the future. Do the hackneyed phrases "meet by clothes" come to mind? Is it so? What you need to do to make a good impression, because it is very important: friends, work, relationships - it all starts with the first meeting and the first impression of you.
In fact, the first impression of a person is made up of a combination of several factors: how you are dressed; your appearance, facial expressions, gestures. A correctly spoken first phrase is like the first serve. It is she who gives half of the success. But what exactly should you say in the first minutes of acquaintance?
How should you behave in order to make an exceptionally good impression on people?
Anyone who knows the answers to these questions is usually in great demand in society, he has a lot of friends and has no problems finding a job.
There are general rules for how you should behave when you first meet.
- Did you confidence yourself. Even if you're not sure, you need to look confident. A confidently spoken phrase, even if it is not very smart, usually makes an impression and is called a point of view. Feel free to open your mouth.
- You friendly. I want to communicate with a pleasant, cheerful and smiling person. Bores are left alone. Smile more often, even if cats scratch your soul.
- You are open to communication. Do not divide people into the chosen and the superfluous. When communicating with a person, let him know that he is very important to you, communicate with him on those topics that are interesting to him.
- You have a sense of humor. Do not be offended by an unsuccessful phrase or a ridiculous joke.
- You are curious, but in moderation. Curiosity should not be confused with tactlessness. Do not be interested in the details of the personal life of the interlocutor, but communicate on topics common to you.
- You are frank. Do not confuse frankness with rudeness. If you are embarrassed, you can frankly admit it, but you should not be frankly rude when speaking about someone.
- Courage. Do not hesitate to be the first to approach the right person, this is how you can go through your whole life.
- Responsiveness. If you see that someone is uncomfortable in society, come to his rescue, help him join the team, start communicating with him, even if he does not interest you. The person will be grateful to you for the helping hand that you extended to him.
You don't have to strive to memorize these rules. Most importantly, take life and acquaintances lightly, play, try. That's when you will make a good impression on people when you first meet and increase the number of your friends.
