It's classic to start dating a girl with a compliment, but not all praise is good for that! Thoughtless, ambiguous words may not be perceived in the way you imagined.
Instructions
Step 1
The compliment should be tactful. It's good when you know a girl quite well and can say with confidence which qualities she will like to praise and which features it is better not to touch on.
Step 2
If a girl cares about her appearance, you can compliment her with a star in favor of her friend. You can compare the abilities of your beloved with your own, for example: "You are very good at drawing, but I could not depict anything worthwhile!"
Step 3
A more poetic compliment can be written on the basis of comparisons. In your praise, mention some historical, mythical or literary heroine, for example: “You are more beautiful than Aphrodite!”; "The beauty of Cleopatra fades before yours!" Most importantly, do not overdo it. Do not mention lesser-known heroines that the girl may not know about, otherwise the praise may sound ambiguous.
Step 4
If you are in a close enough relationship with your girlfriend, compliment the higher realms, your emotional experiences. For example: “You are the only one who understands me, who always supports”; "I cannot live without you, you are my happiness forever." Such words will make it clear to the girl that you are interested in her, that you consider her an exceptional person. Remember, you should not say such a compliment to an unfamiliar interlocutor, just as you should not start an acquaintance with him. The girl can sense the falsity in your words.
Step 5
A universal praise for both a loved one and a still unfamiliar girl will be a compliment on the topic of her work, hobbies or skills. For example, you can write the following: “You have so many interests, how do you manage to do everything?”; “You have a very interesting job and you are very passionate about it. I admire your enthusiasm. " Another universal compliment is the beautifully presented statement of fact: "You have beautiful hair and clear eyes."
Step 6
Try not to overdo it with appearances. A girl may think that her beauty is the only thing that attracts you to her. Praise should be natural, spoken as if by chance, then immediately change the topic of the conversation. You don't need to compliment too often, it will seem unnatural to the girl, and you will turn into an annoying admirer in her eyes.
Step 7
Try to think about compliments in advance, they should not sound ambiguous. Example of bad praise: "This work is much better than your previous creations!"; "This dress makes you very slim!"
Step 8
You should not give compliments, instructions of this kind: "You have beautiful legs, you need to wear skirts." The girl will think that you consider everything else in her appearance ugly, and she will be offended.
