Sometimes it is very, very necessary to meet with some person, but this person from time to time finds excuses, does not understand hints, evades an answer - or refuses outright. Do not despair! You can get a person to do what you want in different ways.
Instructions
Step 1
Before persuading a person to come to a meeting with you, summarize everything you know about his character and temperament. Most likely, this is not a close friend whom you have learned better than yourself over the years of friendship. At the same time, going to storm the fortress without picking up the most effective weapon is stupidity. Understand if this person is hot-tempered, or you can persuade him for more than one hour, and he will not yell at you; does he understand jokes; whether it is possible to manipulate it covertly. Maybe you don't need to dodge and be cunning, but it is enough to explain to a person why his presence in a certain place at a certain hour is important for you, and he, having understood you with his mind, and not feeling, will come to you without objection.
Step 2
Show originality. Send a letter, record a music track, draw a teddy bear on the pavement (the latter is best if you are inviting a girl to a meeting). Of course, act reasonably and consider the status of the person you want to invite, his age, gender and character. You hardly need to write an invitation with crayons on the pavement under the windows of the professor you want to invite on faculty day, but such an invitation can work for a girl who simply fills her own worth and therefore does not want to go to the bar with you.
Step 3
Try to act on the contrary. It often happens like this: it is worth saying to a person who waved his hands at you for a full hour and refused to meet, - "Okay, God be with you, if you don't want to - don't come," he immediately agrees. But you should not take this method as the main one, it is best to leave it "just in case of fire": your interlocutor may feel that something was wrong if for half an hour you stupidly hammered him with your importunity, and then suddenly gave up. If you are playing a role, play it well.
Step 4
In some cases, an official invitation and a gift attached to it may be appropriate. Well-chosen words for a business style of speech can work better than face-to-face conversation, eye-to-eye contact, and pleading. On the contrary, intrusiveness in personal communication will alienate the person from you, while the formality of tone, demonstrating the seriousness of your intentions, will attract attention, and the person will gladly come to your meeting.
