Friends bring joy, interest and variety to life. However, not every friendship lasts forever. In order not to lose your friends and girlfriends, learn the secrets of communicating with them.
Instructions
Step 1
Look for common ground with your friends. Of course, you have something in common, since you began to actively communicate. But over time, the hobbies and activities that united you before can recede into the background. In order not to distance yourself from your buddy, you need to find an actual common hobby.
Step 2
Be kind to your friends. Let communication with you bring them only joy. Get out of the habit of criticizing your buddies. Give them nice little gifts for no reason. Offer your help during a difficult time in your friend's life. Be considerate of people you like and your relationship will grow stronger.
Step 3
Don't use your friends as free psychological help. If at every meeting you complain about life, talk about your misadventures, ask for advice on how to act in a given situation and wait for comfort from your friends, they may begin to feel burdened by your company. Agree, this is selfish, turn every date with people close to you into a discussion of your life and spoil the mood of others with your whining. It is better to find a topic of conversation that is pleasant and interesting for everyone.
Step 4
Maintain your friendship. Become the initiator and organizer of a meeting with your buddies. Take time to call a friend and see how they are doing. Sometimes a good friendship ends in nothing just because people don't want to find time for each other. Remember that if you distance yourself from your friends, it will be very difficult to reconnect and get back together. Therefore, you need to appreciate people close to you in spirit.
Step 5
Don't ask your friends for too great favors or favors. Also, do not borrow large sums of money from friends. Otherwise, you may find yourself in such a situation that the person simply cannot help you, and then he will be burdened with a sense of guilt and will begin to avoid you. Or it will seem to your friend that you want to use him, since you do not consider his interests, asking for too much sacrifice for him for your own benefit.
