In a series of wedding ceremonies held since ancient times in Russia, engagement (conspiracy) followed matchmaking, before betrothal and wedding. This is a kind of preliminary agreement that the young will enter into marriage. In modern life, the day of filing an application with the registry office is often the day of the engagement. Newlyweds sometimes conclude a marriage contract, which it would be appropriate to solemnly sign on this very day. On the day of the engagement, the parents of the young people discuss the issues of the future wedding.
It is necessary
- - gold engagement ring with stones;
- - bouquets of flowers;
- - banqueting hall.
Instructions
Step 1
Talk to your parents about your upcoming engagement and wedding plans. If there was no matchmaking as such, be sure to get acquainted with the parents of the groom / bride before the engagement, so as not to present them with an unexpected surprise.
Step 2
On the day of filing an application with the registry office, arrange a meeting of two families who want to become related to congratulate the young with their new title - the groom and the bride. For the engagement ceremony, book tables in a restaurant, cafe, etc. Beautiful atmosphere, live music, lighting will create an unforgettable atmosphere of a real holiday. Prepare bouquets of flowers - for the bride and her mother. For this ceremony, invite the closest family members - parents, sisters and brothers
Step 3
Announce your engagement. Ask the future father-in-law for the bride's hand. Having received the parental blessing and after listening to congratulations on your engagement, invite everyone present to the festive table. And give the bride a gold engagement ring with stones, it would be nice with diamonds. It will be inherited in your family. The engagement ring accepted by the girl indicates her consent to marry you. After the wedding, she will wear it over the wedding ring
Step 4
Discuss your wedding day at the festive table. Agree on the division of responsibilities. Consider questions about the wedding procession, the wedding venue, toastmaster services, overnight accommodation, photo and video filming. The bride and groom can talk about wedding rings, bouquets, wedding dresses in a private conversation. After discussing important issues about the upcoming wedding, the parents of the young couple exchange phones and invite each other to visit.
Step 5
Extend this festive evening by staying alone. Congratulate your betrothed on your engagement by gently whispering to her touching assurances of eternal love. It will be very nice to present her with a hidden bunch of her favorite cornflowers or a garden lily of the valley. Surprise her with something pleasant or go to a nightclub with a noisy group of friends. Send out invitations to your friends in advance so they can congratulate you on your engagement in time. Tell your intrigued friends your wedding day at the very last moment. At the end of the evening, please your loved one with a beautiful fireworks in honor of her. Organize the engagement so that it will surely end with a magnificent wedding. And let it be followed by a series of long, bright, happy years.
