Adolescents have all the emotions over the edge: if they love, then it seems that forever, therefore, they give themselves up to this love completely. Sometimes teenage love gives an unexpected result - pregnancy. And then the fear arises: how to explain to your parents that you are pregnant? We understand the situation.
How to understand if this is pregnancy
First of all, it is worth figuring out whether there really is a pregnancy or not. You can talk about the presence of pregnancy if there was unprotected intercourse (without a condom or other contraception), there is a delay in menstruation and at least 3 tests showed a positive result.
You can buy tests at any pharmacy without hesitation - they don't ask for a passport. It is advisable to do tests for morning urine, although there are some tests that show an accurate result regardless of the time of collection.
How to tell your parents and boyfriend about pregnancy
It's not worth delaying recognition. But there is no need to throw information out of the door. Better to tell your mom first, in a secluded, relaxed environment. Repent, cry if necessary, and ask for support. Of course, the first reaction will be shock and an explosion of emotions - you shouldn't be afraid of that.
Attention: if there is acute pain in the lower abdomen or bleeding of unknown etiology (unlike normal menstruation, with profuse clots), immediately take an adult by the arm and consult a doctor! Later you will figure out who is to blame and what to do.
With the guy, things are more complicated. Young men have testosterone off-scale, many simply cannot fully realize their responsibility. It's good if the guy agrees to become a father. If, in response to your confession, reproaches and accusations are heard - well, this is the guy's choice, and you will have to accept it, no matter how painful it is. Be tougher - both are always to blame for an unplanned pregnancy, so if a guy cannot provide moral support, at least let him provide financial assistance (even if he is still young to earn money, there are his parents too).
The most important thing in this situation is the health of the expectant mother, because early pregnancy, like early abortion, is fraught with complex consequences, up to miscarriages and infertility. Despite her young age, one must remember that the pregnant woman herself bears responsibility for her child. No one has the right to force an abortion - not even parents. And if you have made the decision to give birth, stand your ground until the end.
It so happens that parents abandon their daughter after learning about her pregnancy. This is a rash act that they may regret over time. Therefore, if family members have refused support, you need to look for other options for help: other relatives, the guy's parents, etc.
There are many crisis centers to help pregnant young women. Don't worry about studying either. Many young mothers after childbirth graduate from school again and then study in absentia at the university. Get registered in the antenatal clinic on time, follow the instructions of the doctors and do not be afraid of anything.
No difficulties in life can be compared with the first smile of a baby and other joys of motherhood!
