The ability to part in an amicable way is not a Russian tradition. Unfortunately, many former lovers often remain enemies after breaking up. This makes life difficult for their mutual friends and children, if any. One must be able to part with loved ones kindly. And then on your life path there will be no more enemies, but more and more friends.
Instructions
Step 1
Have a heart-to-heart talk. Tell each other everything that has been accumulating over the years. It is not easy to do emotionally, but it is very important for your successful personal life in the future. Be bold in giving each other feedback. It will help each of you not to make past mistakes again.
Step 2
Forgive each other for all insults. This is even more difficult to do than organizing a conversation. But asking for forgiveness and giving it is important to both of you.
Step 3
Sincerely wish each other happiness. You do not part because someone is bad, someone is good. You are just different and do not fit each other. But each of you can expect better and happier relationships in the future. Have the courage to wish each other the best in your personal life.
Step 4
Let go of emotional attachments. After breaking up, you both shouldn't care who lives with whom. When and who called whom. Try to maintain a relationship only on business. Do not be promiscuous and do not meddle in each other's personal affairs. After a breakup, you have no moral right to control the relationship of your ex.
Step 5
Complete common tasks, especially if they are related to finances. For some time after breaking up, a negative emotional background can and should be present in your relationship. This is a natural reaction to a breakup, which takes time and effort to overcome. But if you continue to work together on a project or build a summer cottage, this can exacerbate the problems. For a while, it is advisable to abandon joint affairs related to material costs or receipts. This will make it easier to get over the breakup. After the emotions have subsided, it will be possible to continue the common work started.
Step 6
Don't force your friends to choose between you. They are already in a difficult situation - they feel sorry for both you and your partner. Try to communicate with all common friends, regardless of their position in your situation. The ability not to destroy the jointly acquired relationship is a great wisdom and a huge plus in your life. So you will save each other from unnecessary stress and worries.
