Sometimes people break up - no matter how long they have lived together. Some women easily and philosophically endure the husband's departure, but more often the husband's departure from the family brings the woman serious pain, and she, as best she can, tries to restore the family and return the man to it. If your husband has completely stopped loving you, there is no point in trying to get him back. But if you understand that he still loves you, it makes sense to try to restore family ties.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, stop scolding your husband and feeling sorry for yourself. Think sensibly, what were the reasons for his departure, and which of these reasons lurk in yourself.
Step 2
Remember if you tried to re-educate a man, make him different, more comfortable for yourself? Or maybe you gave him not enough love and attention, were not attentive to his needs? There are many things that could have caused your husband to leave the house, and you must self-critically acknowledge them.
Step 3
Remember how often your husband's mood has been spoiled lately, and what was the reason for this. Accept the man for who he really is, let him know that you are not going to change him, and that you are attentive to his desires and inclinations.
Step 4
When talking to a man, avoid screaming, hysterics, tears, and complaints. Don't try to make him feel guilty - this will only ruin the situation. Don't limit the conversation about your relationship to a scandal - try to make it calm, thoughtful, and mutually respectful.
Step 5
Let your husband know that you value all his qualities, and first of all, freedom of action and self-expression. Admit that you were wrong about something - perhaps the husband will admit that he was wrong in return. Learn to listen to each other and respect each other. Only mutual understanding and respect can become the basis of strong relationships.
Step 6
It is much more difficult to return the love of an ex-husband if he left for a reason, but to his mistress. This almost always means that he wants to find in another woman what he lacks in you. You need to determine what features are missing in you, and gradually demonstrate them to your husband so that he understands that you are not worse than his mistress, but much better. Do not build intrigues, adventures and conspiracies - this will only push him away from you.
Step 7
Just be attractive, understanding, mysterious - in a word, the way he once loved you. Give your husband maximum attention without hinting at his third-party connection. Calmly and with dignity play the role of a loving wife, and the husband will soon understand what he is losing, and will return to you.
