Our life sometimes turns out not at all the way we would like. The husband, who has been married to you for many years, leaves for a young mistress. It is bitter and insulting when the closest person betrays. It seems that life is crumbling, and there is one hopeless haze ahead. But it only seems to be. You just need to have a little patience and learn to live without a husband.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, don't be intimidated by your depressed mood. Divorce is stressful. And your hurt, pain, anger and frustration are natural human reactions. All abandoned women feel the same way.
Step 2
Try to accept the current situation and "pull yourself together." You need to rebuild your life without a husband (without that husband). It will be difficult - be patient. Time is working for you.
Step 3
Try to objectively analyze your past relationship. This is necessary in order not to repeat the same mistakes in the future. Do not assume that only the husband is to blame. But don't take all the blame on yourself. There are always two people to blame for family troubles, even if one of them committed an obvious betrayal.
Step 4
After analyzing the unsettled family life and identifying your mistakes, do not return to this topic any more. Lived and forgotten. Do not leaf through family albums, throw away his personal belongings (razor, towel, cologne, etc.). Just look ahead.
Step 5
Don't start a hasty relationship: “To spite him. Let him know that I am no longer alone. You don't need to prove anything. Live for yourself. Give yourself time to take a break from family relationships.
Step 6
Don't bury yourself alive. Take care of yourself. Get a new hairstyle, makeup. Go shopping. Dress brightly and attractively. No need to wear dark mourning outfits, the mood will only worsen.
Step 7
Come up with a new hobby, but let it be exclusively feminine and active: belly dancing, fitness, step aerobics.
Step 8
Don't be alone. Go to theaters, museums, exhibitions. Spend time with your friends. Do not try to forget yourself with alcohol - this is a path to the abyss.
Step 9
And do not think that you are doomed to live alone. Let time pass, and the man of your dreams will definitely be found. And taking into account the bitter experience, you will no longer make past mistakes, and you will definitely be happy in a new marriage.
