Striving to be a good parent is commendable. But you don't have to try to be the perfect parent. Such parents simply do not exist. We are all unique and we have different approaches to education. But there are a few important things you can do to help you become really good parents. Here you will have to work hard on yourself.
Instructions
Step 1
First, accept your children fully, with all the merits and demerits. Even the smallest child already has some kind of belief system, he has his own interests and opinions. And in order to understand them, you need to learn to listen and hear your children. Treat your baby as a person, and many questions will disappear by themselves.
Step 2
Second, support the interests of children. Try to get into their "skin". If the child disagrees with you in something, think about why he thinks so, and whether it really matters to him.
Step 3
Third, be the support and reliable protection of your children. It is not easy for a child to master this huge new world for him, which is far from always friendly to him. In you, he should find a quiet, cozy corner, where you can always come and feel safe. If you shine with calmness and confidence, your child will find the safe haven they need.
Step 4
Fourth, give your little one a free hand. Unhappy are both the child whom mom and dad take great care of, and the child who is left to himself and lacks support. In order to learn some safety rules, the child himself must make some mistakes. To comprehend the law of gravitation, he needs to fall. Of course, this does not mean that the child can be allowed to touch the bare wires. It's about reasonable freedom. Guide your child skillfully, but don't break him.
Step 5
Finally, don't beat yourself up for past mistakes. If you raised your child incorrectly up to this point, this time has passed. Now the main thing is not to give up on your goal of becoming a good parent. Let parenting bring you joy, not disappointment.
