Almost every woman wants to be a good mom for her baby. It is important to raise a child as an intelligent, well-mannered, good person, and at the same time remain a beloved mother for him.
Spend time with your child
Try to communicate with your child more often. Until he learns to speak, you will have to conduct monologues. But when he learns to answer, talk to him on an equal footing. No need to lisp or dismiss his problems. Listen carefully to his stories and ask questions. If you do not have time to talk, ask for forgiveness and promise to listen to the rest in the evening. Be sure to follow through on your promise so you don't undermine your credibility. Daily communication will help build a close and trusting relationship with your child, which will help to overcome the difficult adolescence.
Show your love and care. It is very important for a baby to feel the support of his parents. Praise him more often if he fulfilled your assignment, give a reward for good behavior. But you do not need to impose your desires on him, let him choose his hobbies. Remember to hug, stroke, massage, and kiss him more often so he learns to accept and express love.
Educate and teach him. Do not rely entirely on kindergarten or school, educate your child in your free time. Enroll in educational circles, sports sections, a music school, or just study with him at home. Instill in him a love of knowledge so that he can keep up with his peers and achieve success in life.
Don't be afraid to be strict. Parents need to be firm in order to properly raise a baby. Children can sometimes misbehave, and so that they do not grow up rebellious, learn to pacify them. You don't have to shout or hit children to show your authority. It is enough to explain in a clear voice that you cannot behave this way and give reasons. If he continues to be capricious, take advantage of the threats, but only the next time, activate them.
Follow the sequence in actions, rules and daily routine. Let the child understand clearly and clearly what you want from him. If he is capricious, explain in a calm voice why you cannot behave this way and what will happen if he does not obey. If he continues to be naughty, follow through on your threat.
From time to time, you can go for small deviations from the regime, but explain the reasons to the baby. There is no need to blindly indulge his whims, but if there is an objective reason, you can make concessions. For example, if the child usually goes to bed at 21 o'clock, and grandparents arrived at 20.30, allow him to sit with them.
Let yourself rest
Don't ask too much of yourself; take rest breaks. Motherhood is hard work that takes 24 hours a day. Ask your husband or other relatives to help you sit with your baby. And you at this time have a little rest. Do not forget about yourself, because the child needs a happy and calm mother, and the rest will follow.
