Intimate relationships in a married couple are far from always ideal. There are dozens of reasons why one partner withdraws from intimacy with the other. And if this partner is a man, then the woman is responsible for restoring sexual life.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not panic. Women are by nature rather shy, plus they all have a wild imagination. These two qualities sometimes paint unimaginable pictures - from infidelity to divorce. But not always a man grows cold towards sex because of an affair on the side. Analyze the life situation from his position. Perhaps he is in trouble or an emergency at work, he has a fight with his parents, or has a disagreement with his best friend. All of these factors can affect intimate relationships, so they cannot be ruled out. If one of them suits your situation, you just need to wait a few days - the relationship will improve on its own.
Step 2
Don't scandal. Quarrels will not bring positive results - you will only worsen your relationship, and intimacy will go away from all their levels. Calm down and pull yourself together. Try to discuss the current situation with your husband, but not in the context of accusations and claims, but from the position of a benevolent listener. Be prepared to help, support, and listen carefully. Don't be offended if your husband doesn't make contact the first time. After all, it is quite possible that the lack of sex is associated with health problems, which greatly hurts male pride.
Step 3
Provide your husband with a quiet life for at least a few days. Stop giving him directions, let him sit back and relax. At the same time, it is important not to get angry, because the man feels nervous, and all your efforts will go down the drain. So you show your husband that you are his friend, your home is a haven in any trouble. Comfort and confidence will give him strength.
Step 4
Change yourself. Many years of marriage lead to a completely mundane life, and a man can get bored corny. In order to stir him up and bring back intimacy, try to show yourself on the other side. You can experiment with looks, do something unusual, find a new hobby. It is important to make sure that your husband sees you as a person who can surprise.
Step 5
Become an initiator. No need to wait for the initiative from your husband, show it yourself. Change your dressing gown for tight things, flirt with your husband, flirt with him. Flirtatious looks and gentle touches will tell about your desire better than any words. Surprise your husband - buy new lingerie, in which you will feel irresistible, and immediately show it to your spouse. Preferably in dim lamp light and appropriate environment.
