Beloved means happy, for most women these are synonymous words. But how to preserve love in the family, how to make sure that your husband does not tire of admiring you? Every wife wants to be loved, but the husband wants the same no less, and this is the essence of the solution to the issue.
Instructions
Step 1
Do not demand the impossible from your husband, accept him as he is. The biggest disagreements begin when people try to remake each other. Perhaps you want him to match your ideas of what an ideal man should be. But he is a living person with his own shortcomings and merits. It's not easy to accept your partner and accept that they won't change, but if you do, they'll be truly grateful.
Step 2
If you want to be loved by your husband, give him love. It is not for nothing that there is a saying: "As it comes around, it will respond." Very often people, when they spend a lot of time together, begin to behave in a similar way. And if you show coldness and inattention to your partner, he does the same. When it seems to you that your partner does not behave quite the way you would like to behave towards you, think about how you yourself behave in a similar situation?
Step 3
Be yourself. Your husband fell in love with you and proposed to you because he saw something special in you, which made his heart not doubt the choice. It often happens that everyday chores and everyday life make people forget about themselves in the present. It seems that by giving up a career, hobby or hobby, you are sacrificing it for the family, but in reality, you are sacrificing your family too. When people leave things that are important to themselves, they become not interesting to themselves, further and to those who love this "spark" in them. Don't cheat on yourself. At the same time, don't force your husband to sacrifice something for you.
Step 4
Take care of him, pay attention to the little things. After all, it is not at all difficult to cook your husband's favorite dish for dinner, send an SMS in the middle of a working day, or buy him a book that he has long wanted to read. These are small but pleasant things that demonstrate your attitude towards him. After such displays of attention, do not be surprised to find a chocolate bar in your purse or something else like that, because who knows what his fantasy is capable of? Doing this allows you to express your feelings without speaking about them out loud.
Step 5
Whatever you do for him, do for yourself. The care and attention that you show towards your husband should be your joy. You can't do favors and go against yourself just to please your loved one. But if he feels good from your care, then this should please you too. Paradoxically, it is the selfless concern that is always mutual.
