People invite each other out on dates, but there are invitations that make you want to be. What should a woman do if she doesn't want to go on a date?
You shouldn't run from fans, you need to be able to culturally refuse. It is important to understand that the refusal should be gentle and not too hurt a man's pride. Especially if it's a work colleague or friend.
The inviting gentleman needs to consistently explain why you do not want to go on a date with him. There is no need to say that the time is not yet, or to promise to think. This will not solve the problem, but only postpone it for a while. It is necessary to approach clearly and reasonably to the very reason for the refusal. It could be having another person in your life, or that you don't think it is a good idea to meet with coworkers. You can also simply say that there is no way to accept the invitation. A smart man will understand everything, and a stupid man will eventually find another "victim".
You should not indulge in long explanations, arguing the reasons for the refusal. Explain briefly and to the point, eliminate encouraging phrases altogether. When it comes to an invitation from a good friend or friend, then you need to be very gentle and tactful. There is no need to offend people. It is better not to tell the reason for refusal to a good friend, so as not to push the person to analyze his mistakes and shortcomings.
Psychologists recommend that you think carefully before making an invitation to a date, understand the possible consequences and prospects. The opposite sex should also not be given false hopes.
