Not every woman is capable of starting and maintaining a conversation with a stranger. It is especially offensive to realize your helplessness if you really liked a random fellow traveler or a neighbor at a table in a cafe, and you missed the opportunity to meet. How to start a conversation with a man?
Instructions
Step 1
The most difficult moment is the first words. Before starting a conversation, give your cute subject a genuine smile. And it is possible that he himself will take the initiative and try to get to know each other.
Step 2
To please and attract the interlocutor, you need to choose an interesting topic for him. No matter how banal the first phrases are, the conversation can always be turned in such a way as to make the person talk. In almost any situation, it is appropriate to talk about the weather, the latest events in the country and the world, the latest in the film industry. But the most interesting topic for a man is himself. Try to catch on to some phrase and turn the conversation into it.
Step 3
Observe the other person during the conversation. This is necessary in order to understand in time whether he is bored or not. Body language will help you. If a man's gaze wanders over you or is directed to the side, the pupils of the eyes are narrowed, then he is bored. In this case, immediately cut off your monologue, call the interlocutor by name and ask a personal question.
Step 4
What is worth talking about and what is not? Men love to talk about themselves, but only about victories, not defeats. You should not ask about anything if a new acquaintance has recently lost his job, he has problems due to divorce or illness. Such topics can only be touched on with loved ones. They also do not like it if a woman from the first minutes of acquaintance begins to share her problems. It is unlikely that a man who does not know you at all will rush to "save" a stranger.
Step 5
To keep the conversation going, share your experiences in the area in question. However, do not forget that two are involved in the dialogue - give the interlocutor the opportunity to speak out. To get a man talking, you can ask him about the details of the event, find out his opinion about him.
Step 6
The future of your acquaintance often depends on the ability to end a conversation on time. The interlocutor should be left in such a state that he craves to continue the conversation. Thank him for his communication and tell him that it is time for you to leave. Most likely, a new acquaintance will offer to exchange phone numbers. When leaving, finally turn around and smile at him.
