Parties and parties with friends are one of the best places to meet interesting people. The informal atmosphere, pleasant music and reigning fun are conducive to relaxation and a benevolent attitude towards others. Many couples met at the holidays, and a huge number of people at such parties have found good friends.
Instructions
Step 1
Usually, if a holiday is arranged for a group of people who do not know each other well, then the organizers supplement the program with games for acquaintance, as some are at first shy, not talking to those they do not know. If the games are not planned, then you yourself can invite your friends to arrange something similar: most likely, they will rejoice at your idea. In general, any games are a great excuse to meet and make friends with people at a party. If you see that there are some kind of contests, then do not ignore them. Participate in all kinds of activities at the party, you yourself will not notice how it turns out that all the cute and funny guests of this party have already become your buddies.
Step 2
Parties usually involve a feast. If you are sitting next to strangers, feel free to introduce yourself first. Ask if you can pass them a dish. You can offer help yourself when a pleasant person needs to reach for a plate of snacks.
Step 3
Do not sit in the corner, gloomily going about your business and showing with all your appearance how bored you are here. Yes, in films, this behavior usually attracts the cutest person at the party to the protagonist, and then they have fun adventures. But even if this is really possible, then remember that the film simply does not show how many good parties and pleasant acquaintances the protagonist missed in the past, ignoring all the funniest things about them.
Step 4
Smile at all the people you see. Be open and friendly. No need to pretend, you just have to be in a good mood. Even if you don't feel like having fun, find a way to forget about worries and sad thoughts. Read a couple of funny jokes on the Internet before going on a visit, watch funny videos. If you shine with positive emotions overtaking you and openly express your joy, all the most interesting guests will get to know you themselves.
Step 5
Turn off your phone and hide it away. A few years ago, no one could have imagined such advice, but today, as studies show, an important problem for people is precisely how to break away from the familiar comfortable world on the phone and talk to those whom you see for the first time. If you notice that everyone is staring at their phones, and the fun is not working out, suggest a game: all guests put their phones in the center of the table. The loser is the one who is the first to reach out to his device, no matter why. You can prepare forfeits in advance for the offender or assign him a ridiculous punishment. Even if no one loses, the problem can still be solved.
Step 6
If you like someone, then try to have an unobtrusive conversation with this person, since the party usually provides enough reasons. You can ask how long the guest has known the owners of the house, make an unexpected pleasant compliment to the person, ask him to convey something. And then to behave according to the situation, for example, you can ask what a person is doing, and so on.
