Dating on the bus sometimes throws even experienced men into a stupor. This is due to the abundance of people around and often the inability to calculate how much time there is to get acquainted, especially when it comes to public transport - the object can go to any setting. But if time permits, meeting a girl on the bus can be a great start to a new relationship.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't start showing sympathy for a lovely stranger from the other end of the bus. The distance between you and the presence of people around will confuse the girl and will not dispose her to communicate with you.
Step 2
Try to be on the same plane with your chosen one. If the girl is sitting, sit next to her; if she is, stand up. Make an exception only if you are sitting and the girl is standing nearby. In this case, stand up and give her your seat. She will surely appreciate your small but noble gesture. In addition, you will have a reason to strike up an acquaintance.
Step 3
The first eye contact is very important. Try starting with a light smile. Give the girl time to notice you and inadvertently get a better look. The best scenario at this stage is if you can recognize reciprocal sympathy. This is quite simple to do. If a girl smiles at you, straightens her hair, looks in your direction, you are most likely guaranteed further success.
Step 4
It's time to take more action. Be the first to strike up a conversation. Make an unusual compliment, joke, comment on the view outside the window or an unusual situation on the bus. Try to speak softly so that only the girl can hear you. This will help you feel more comfortable and confident and will not embarrass your fellow traveler.
Step 5
Avoid the standard phrases of young people in a similar situation. You shouldn't say: "Girl, let me meet you" or "Does your mother need a son-in-law?" These commonplace phrases will not distinguish you from the crowd of her fans, moreover, you run the risk of being branded and uninteresting. And here it will be close to a complete fiasco.
Step 6
Find out where your companion is heading, whether her destination is soon. This information will help you understand how much time you have to create a favorable impression of yourself and consolidate your acquaintance.
Step 7
Don't start a conversation about personal topics. What is appropriate when meeting in a club or on the street may not work on the bus. Unobtrusively invite the girl to walk her home. When there are fewer people around, it will be easier for you to find contact, prove yourself, and start more active actions.
Step 8
If you do not plan to go out with a girl in the same place, you will have to exchange contacts with her while on the bus. And the ordinary "Tell me, please, your phone number, I would like to meet with you again" will not work here. Try to be original and look confident, even when you're not. If someone stepped on the girl's foot or accidentally touched her, you can joke and ask for her phone number under the pretext of accompanying and protecting her on every trip. If you did everything right, she will appreciate your sense of humor and agree.
