Modern women are free to independently choose their life priorities and decide whether to build a working career, become a diligent housewife, or take some other path, for example, to look for themselves in art. However, a representative of the fairer sex can solve this issue without any problems only in the case of complete material independence from anyone. Otherwise, she will have to take into account the opinion of loved ones and, first of all, her husband.
It is necessary
- - help of a psychologist;
- - professional courses for women;
- - services of a housekeeper or nanny.
Instructions
Step 1
If a woman does not want to work, first of all, analyze the reasons for her decision. Perhaps she has too many household chores, she is mired in everyday problems and she simply does not have the strength and desire to perform a new labor feat. If you are a husband, work from morning till night and think that your wife is at home and does nothing, try to more objectively assess the extent to which she is busy with household chores. Caring for children, their upbringing already takes a lot of energy. But your wife will probably also cook, wash, iron, tidy up the apartment, go shopping, pharmacies, etc. Your usual comfort, warm dinner, clean shirts, etc. - a lot of female forces have been invested in all this.
Step 2
In the case when the situation in your family is exactly as described above, seriously think about how to unload your spouse from household chores and help her find time for professional growth. With the consent of the spouse, you can hire a nanny, housekeeper, assign children to a nursery or kindergarten. Do not forget that if your wife works, you will have to share household chores with her in half.
Step 3
It also happens that a woman feels great in the role of a housewife - a family, the arrangement of your common life worries her much more than production successes. If your spouse is happy to do all the housework, brings up your children and does not dream of career growth, think about whether you should deprive her and yourself of the pleasure of living in a cozy well-kept house, eating delicious homemade food, and not heated semi-finished products, to see happy children. playing with mom, and not with someone else's aunt-educator, etc.
Step 4
When the material situation of the family is really deplorable, or you see that your wife is a notorious parasite and is lying on the couch all day or going shopping with her friends, seriously talk to her. In a calm atmosphere, discuss your family problems, openly tell your spouse that you would like her to do something serious, explain the reasons for your request.
Step 5
Keep in mind that, in spite of any emancipation, there are still women who are initially determined that the husband should be the breadwinner in the family. If your wife has this attitude and is not doing her household chores, try cutting back on the amount of money given to her. Do not give in to persuasion and complaints, remember your goal - to get your spouse to work.
Step 6
More often tell your wife not only about your own professional successes, but also about the achievements of your female colleagues working with you, about their desire to build a career, grow and develop. In the presence of your wife, you should not encourage the film images of glamorous divas who live off men.
Step 7
If you are not an oligarch and you do not have millions of savings for old age in the bank, remind your unwilling wife about the need to earn seniority to calculate your pension. Emphasize that life is unpredictable and this social payment can be very useful to her.
Step 8
In the event that a woman does not want to work just because she does not like her profession, help her to retrain, to master the business that she really likes. To do this, it is not at all necessary to graduate from the institute; short-term courses can come to the rescue.
