Despite the fact that a man, by his nature, is a support, a defender of women and a breadwinner in the family, equality of men and women has been established in society. Now the female sex must be strong and independent. Who is to blame for this, and what to do?
Instructions
Step 1
The husband does not work: what is the problem?
Women, naturally soft and gentle creatures, experiencing a sense of devotion, do not immediately begin to think that their beloved is not working. Someone's husband quit, another is seriously ill, and so on, and so on. Anything can happen in life, but women endure, wait and work in order to provide for their families, lead a life, take care of children. The reasons may be different, but if your man does not work, and it lasts for a long time, from several months to several years, you should seriously think about it. Maybe your boyfriend just doesn't want to work?
Step 2
What if the guy isn't working?
Of course, you can accept a passive state and wait for a "miracle" that the guy himself will change for the better. However, this is not the best choice.
Try to show your beloved that it is difficult for you to pull on life and work, and you would like to receive support from him. If nothing changes, and your boyfriend continues to be inactive, then perhaps you do not need such a man. If, of course, you are ready to come to terms with the fact that you will live your whole life with a guy who sits on your neck without remorse.
Step 3
How do you get a guy to work?
If your boyfriend is not looking for a job, take part in the job search yourself. Newspapers, advertisements on the Internet can help you. Make him go to interviews.
If he continues to rest, while rejecting all your offers for a long time, then he is a bum and lazy person. A real man will not allow his girlfriend to work for him, he will go to work himself and will provide for his family.
Tell the guy that you don't need a parasite and you want a divorce. If he is not against such a turn, then it remains to be regretted that you spent your time on this person and you should start a new life.
Step 4
It doesn't work: it's okay!
There are also families in which a man does not work, and a woman is a real workaholic, as well as financial support from the family. If you are not embarrassed by this situation, and your income allows, then everything suits everyone, then, well, live.
True, in such families, a man usually performs female duties.
Step 5
And the last, unfortunately, at any moment this situation may no longer be convenient for you. You can get pregnant, and then it will go: the birth of a baby, problems at work, what will you and your husband do if your income suddenly decreases, will you in this case feel your husband, your support, on your neck even more than before ?
