From an anatomical point of view, all people are arranged differently, and no one will deny this. But the genitals are also part of the human anatomy, and they can also be quite different in location and shape. Therefore, the choice of the most comfortable positions for sex, in which both partners will be pleasant and easy, is an important task.
How to search for a pose
There are a great many positions for sex, but this is due to the fact that some of the basic positions can be varied indefinitely. Even the classic "missionary" position, which many people consider the most boring in the world, allows you to experiment. The partner can position his legs in different ways, the partner too, he can lean on his elbows or straight arms, or he can even go down extremely low. All this will affect the contact of the genitals, and hence the pleasure.
There are other poses that are basic. For example, it is "rider", when the woman is on top. "Spoons": a couple lies on their side, a man behind. Also on the side, a pose is possible when the partners are facing each other. The sitting position is very beloved by many, and a woman can sit both facing her partner and with her back. The position in which the man is from behind allows a considerable number of women to get an orgasm without any problems.
Oddly enough, but almost all of these poses are suitable for the absolute majority of couples, albeit with some amendments. You need to remember about your individual characteristics. It is possible to find "your" position by slightly changing the position of the body in order to choose one in which pleasure will be maximum (or slightly less than maximum, depending on your tasks!). This is what is most important when looking for the most comfortable position.
Try to change something during sex, negotiate the same with your partner. Surprisingly, even a completely insignificant change in the posture of one of the partners can bring great pleasure to the other, or, conversely, completely deprive him of it.
Feel free to take those positions in which the erogenous zones can be further stimulated with your hands or otherwise. The psychological characteristics of sex positions are also important. Some people like to dominate sex, they always prefer top positions. Others are more comfortable to be led, they do not rush to a leadership position.
It is important to choose the most comfortable position if the partners vary greatly in height and weight. For example, if the girl is very petite, and the man is tall and large, then the missionary position will probably not work for them.
Why and what to choose
Sexologists believe that good sex requires not only choosing the right position, but generally getting used to each other. Everyone likes different types of caresses, each person has erogenous zones in different places, and the best ways to stimulate them are somewhat different. And that's not to mention the temperament and habitual styles of lovemaking.
To find the most complete approach to each other, people usually need at least ten meetings, during each of which they should take their time. And this is just the beginning! Studying a partner, his reactions to different types of caresses, trying new positions and various other things in sex: all this can be done endlessly.
