Finding your person is not an easy task. And sometimes it seems that the dating pool is filled with too many "frogs", and the same one is not and is not. So what are women looking for in men?
1. "Chemistry"
Don't be discouraged the next time you reject someone, because there is simply no chemistry. Initially, women are attracted to men on the basis of attraction. We think to ourselves, can we have a conversation with this person? Do I feel energized when I talk to this person? These are qualities that help establish a foundation, form a deeper connection and relationship with this person.
2. Openness
It is difficult to build a relationship with someone who is closed. The person who is open has a countercultural willingness to step back from the position of power in which people are brought up to feel comfortable. For a partnership to happen, a man must be willing to be open, and he must open his heart for this to happen. And be careful, ladies, this applies to you too.
3. Stability
This is a great book because it is in three parts. Stability means emotionally, economically, and relatively stable life. If you are not familiar with the third part, we will tell you what it means. Relative stability means that you can count on him to be open, reliable, and that he is essentially someone you could rely on if you owned the home or had a child with him.
4. Equality
If you've ever felt bad in a relationship, it might be because your partner didn't treat you as an equal. The cultural disparity between equality that has existed for millennia, when women were unequal to men in every way, socially, economically, politically and sexually, is changing. Now women want to be considered equal to men, rather than compete with men for dominance.
5. Awareness
It's okay to want to influence (not change) your partner. In fact, relationships are more successful when men allow themselves to influence their partner. Most women already do this according to research, but it's not the same for men. Being open to influence means that the man is aware of and responds to his partner's emotions and needs.
6. Emotional presence
This means that someone stays focused on the speaker instead of staring at their cell phone or other distractions, but this must go both ways. A woman should be emotionally present when her loved one speaks, and she should expect him to do the same in return. But presence also includes responsiveness. That is, when someone texts or calls their partner, the other person should answer as soon as possible, or let them know they are busy before they can answer.
7. Interest
It is important that you feel that your partner is interested in you. Instead of judging the person for their actions and what they do, take an interest in them. I wonder why they dress like that or why they act like that.
8. Security
Women want to be with someone with whom they always feel safe. They want to say, “I feel safe with you. I don't need to make excuses. I know that when I’m by your side, I’ll be fine.”
9. Acceptance
If your man is trying to change you, then he is not the person you want. Women should look for a man who does not value them and is constantly trying to update or improve them.
10. Self-confidence
You don't want someone who doesn't ask for what he wants. This is one of the most important things that allows a relationship to flourish well. And so many men cannot do it. They don't feel like they can ask for something, so they don't tell the woman they are dating that they need to massage their back or legs from time to time. Healthy couples tell each other what they need and what actions make them feel the most loved and caring.
