It is not always possible to erase former partners from real life. If you have the same company, study or work together, meetings are inevitable. It is imperative to find a common language with past love, and if not be friends, then at least maintain neutrality.
Instructions
Step 1
If you were the initiator of the breakup, try to establish contact with the offended girl. Reassure her that the relationship will end sooner or later anyway, because your feelings are gone. And it is better to survive the break now than to see a detached, closed person nearby. And you gave her the chance to find a truly loving partner, and not torment without reciprocity. Offer your girlfriend a friendship. Of course, at first she will refuse. But then, after some time, when the passions subside, it is quite possible that he wants to resume communication. Do not deny her this. Still, many things connected you before, and pleasant memories remain. In addition, this person knows you well and understands, he will always give advice on how to act in a given situation.
Step 2
If your relationship ended at the request of the girl, it will be quite difficult to communicate with her on a friendly note at first. And you shouldn't do that. Maintain neutrality if meetings are inevitable. And always remember that the person acted honestly with you, ending meetings when feelings cooled down. Think, would it be more pleasant for you if a friend deceived you by meeting someone else behind your back? You would be tormented even more if you found out about secret infidelities. Now you have parted, nothing else binds you. You can build new relationships by finding a truly reliable partner.
Step 3
In any case, no matter who of you is the initiator of the breakup, you should not impose companionship. If you see that your ex doesn't want to communicate, step aside. Let some time pass, then everything will fall into place.
