The transitional age is a time of stress not only for the boy himself, but also for his parents. Mood swings, physiological and psychological inconveniences of a teenager are what tests the strength of relationships in the family.
Changes in a boy's body between 12 and 17 years old affect his appearance and behavior. The child begins a gradual transition from childhood to adulthood. In the process of puberty, changes in character occur, and they can be so strong that the teenager changes beyond recognition. A quiet boy can become aggressive and harsh, and an active boy can become completely withdrawn in himself and lose interest in active activities.
Teenagers are worried about their own appearance, they do not accept criticism, and with unsuccessful attempts to perform any action, they become nervous and aggressive. Outbursts of emotions are explained in hormonal changes in the body.
A pronounced symptom of adolescence is frequent rudeness towards parents and teachers.
Many factors influence the onset of adolescence: living conditions, nutrition, heredity, physical activity. The transitional age is difficult due to the fact that an adult attitude to life has already been formed, which is still impossible to realize, and ambitions and emotions are "over the top." It is important for both teenagers and parents to understand that a difficult period is a temporary phenomenon that will soon pass, and you need to try to maintain trust with each other.
It is important to be aware of all the hobbies and activities of a teenager, but not try to criticize, evaluate and persuade, all this is useless - he himself must decide on the choice of life path.
Do not focus only on the boy's life, then domestic stress can be avoided.
Physiological signs of transition in boys
Physiologically, the following changes are taking place:
- a sharp leap in growth, development of muscles and bones;
- the voice becomes coarse, it breaks down with sound drops;
- the shoulders become wider;
- intensive development of the genitals;
- the appearance of hair on the face and body;
- excess weight appears only in the case of hormonal disorders or hereditary predisposition;
- acne;
- increased sweating;
- nocturnal emissions.
Psychological changes
The following changes are taking place in the psychology of adolescents:
- increased interest in their appearance;
- intolerant attitude towards any criticism;
- dissatisfaction with oneself, insecurity, isolation;
- mood swings;
- aggression, nervousness and dissatisfaction;
- committing acts without realizing their consequences;
- an urgent need for support, which they often try to hide;
- change in behavior and character traits;
- sexual attraction to the opposite sex.
In no case should the manifestation of negative emotions of the child be prohibited, all aggression should come out, otherwise there is a risk of its transition into autoaggression. The child should feel understanding and support, this will help him to believe in his own strength.
