A girl experiencing a feeling of love invariably wants to see signs of reciprocal feelings from the object of her love, but she often takes simple politeness for them. How can you tell if a young man really has feelings for you, or if he just treats you like another girl and doesn't make you stand out from the crowd? There are a number of ways you can tell with certainty whether a man likes you.
Instructions
Step 1
Watch the man's non-verbal reactions - his gestures, postures and facial expressions. For example, if you are in a group of people, and a man regularly turns to you, even if he turns to someone else, this may indicate his special sympathy for you.
Step 2
Also, watch the man's behavior when he walks by you. If every time he passes by, he casts a second glance at you and straightens up, this also indicates that he is showing increased attention to you.
Step 3
He can straighten his clothes in your presence, bring his hands to his face, show excitement and embarrassment, smile or look away when looking at you.
Step 4
In addition, it is important for you to learn to listen to your own feelings - take a closer look at yourself, understand exactly how you react to people you like, and how you behave in order to become attractive to them. Look for the same reactions from a young man you like. Even minor signs of attention can clearly indicate his interest in you.
Step 5
If a man likes you, he will look for any opportunity to touch you and will occasionally bump into you from time to time. He can also start a conversation with you on an interesting and unusual topic, avoiding rough intonations in his voice and will try to pronounce "we" instead of "me" or "you".
Step 6
The voice betrays the guy's feelings well - he can be deliberately affectionate, hoarse and agitated, or, on the contrary, be too self-confident if the guy is trying to hide his feelings.
Step 7
If you've been in touch for a long time, but you're still unsure of his feelings, pay attention to how he prioritizes. If a man sacrifices friendly parties for the sake of meeting you and is happy to come to help you with household chores, and also shows a sincere interest in those things that are important to you and in which you live, this indicates a genuine interest in your person.
Step 8
Also, a man who is interested in a girl seeks to communicate with her more and more often and for no reason writes her messages and letters, and also calls, just to hear her voice.
Step 9
Finally, you can ask the man personally if he has sympathy for you. It is unlikely that he will tell you a lie to a directly posed question.