The tyrant husband, alas, is not a rare occurrence. There are not many reasons why a man displays his worst qualities. Unfortunately, in such a situation, it is difficult to save the relationship.
When domestic violence happens, it's too late to fix anything
Psychologists say that the tendency to violence is most often shown by weak people. Violence helps such people to lower their victim to their level, to show superiority. Usually, people prone to violence have serious self-doubt, which is why all the negativity spills out on the family.
Self-doubt is a consequence of the inability to communicate, therefore, a psychological weak, notorious man does not even try to explain something to his woman in words, but first of all uses his fists. Moreover, domestic violence can occur not only in the form of assault, threats, humiliating rules for family members - all this is a form of violence. Disobedience to the rules leads to oppression, humiliation and physical violence. Moreover, the moral and psychological impact on the psyche of the victim is much stronger than the actual beatings.
Family relationships are a battlefield
Household tyrants strive for leadership where no one will fight back. A family frightened by a tyrant often does not even inform anyone about the situation. Our society is not ready to provide assistance and protection to those who suffer from domestic violence. That is why men prone to domestic tyranny feel so at ease. After all, almost certainly the intimidated victim will not tell anyone about anything, and to a greater extent because of shame, and not out of fear. In fact, women themselves give carte blanche to their man's tyranny instead of filing for divorce.
If you've been the victim of violence at least once, don't expect a repeat. Get away from such a man.
As a rule, the predisposition to violence is established in early childhood. Moreover, the roots of female sacrifice and inability to protect themselves also come from there. It is terrible that the position of the victim can be expressed by the phrase "I myself am to blame for everything that happens to me." The family aggressor, exposing his wife to beatings and violence, drives into her that it was she who brought him to this situation. And a woman often begins to believe that she really did not try. Household tyrants are usually good manipulators, so they form an acquired helplessness in their victims.
Don't be afraid to share your situation with your parents, friends, or acquaintances. The sooner you get out of this relationship, the better.
Male tyrants fall into several categories. The first includes those who are prone to violence in a state of passion, after the emotions recede, they most often repent and pray for forgiveness. The second category includes those who simply do not see anything wrong with casually giving their wife a slap in the face. In the third - people who are addicted to violence. Any stimulants that disinhibit consciousness significantly worsen the situation.
