The family plays a huge role in the lives of most people. Everyone wants to have a loving spouse and wonderful children. In order to maintain peace and tranquility in the family, you need to work hard, first of all, on yourself.
Instructions
Step 1
Home is a place where a person comes to rest after a hard day's work. And if he is met there by a disgruntled wife who constantly reproaches something, he is unlikely to want to return there. Therefore, firstly, try to avoid conflicts. To do this, it is enough to learn to treat the shortcomings or mistakes of your spouse gently and condescendingly. You should not swear over every little thing - you just need to calmly explain or hint at what needs to be done.
Step 2
Second, avoid accusing household members of anything. Hardly anyone will like it when he is scolded. Avoid harsh words - everything can be solved much more calmly. To restrain your emotions when talking with your spouse, try to sort things out not immediately after you are faced with a problem, but after half an hour - an hour. This will give you time to cool down and think carefully about the situation. Before the conversation, try to explain to yourself why this happened, to justify your spouse, and then you can calmly discuss everything, without unnecessary accusations and abuse.
Step 3
Thirdly, do not forget that each person is a person with their own desires and interests. Have respect for the opinions of all members of your family, including children. They don't have to do just what you need to do when asked. The same goes for the husband.
Step 4
Fourth, try to diversify your free time and often make family outings to the cinema, cafe or circus. Go with your family and friends for a picnic outside the city - so you will have a great rest, get a lot of impressions and get closer to your family.
Step 5
Fifth, come up with some family traditions that can unite your whole family. It can be a special holiday, different from all others, for example, Family Day. Do not forget to mark all important dates for you, not only birthdays, but also the day of meeting your spouse, wedding anniversary, etc. More often please your family, even with small gifts.
Step 6
The main guarantee of a happy family life is love and respect for your loved ones.
