If women are invited to think and remember how the love relationship began, despite how it ended up, some of them will be enveloped in a romantic veil of memories of the first meeting, long conversations, pleasant surprises, things that united a happy couple in love.
Where is the love?
After the beginning of the most turbulent romance, time always passes, and some lovers in a relationship begin to routine. Men are not too worried about this, but women sometimes worry and think that feelings have faded away and there is no more love. Only the famous words of the classic come to mind: "The love boat crashed into everyday life." Women, not receiving the previous emotions, begin to suspect that that wonderful period of meeting and falling in love with their second half began with another woman. In every new or old acquaintance of their man, the girl is seen as rivals. Against the background of such experiences, they begin to develop depression, insomnia, or other problems. Of course, there is an opinion that a beloved woman has no rivals, but if love is no longer there, a man could well have another.
Such female suspicions are usually confirmed by the behavior of men. They begin to stay late at work, to behave coldly with their women. But don't panic right away. Maybe your loved one is just tired of the routine.
What if you still have a rival?
If you are one hundred percent sure that you still have a rival, the main thing is not to get hysterical. It can be very difficult, but you need to keep yourself in control and not arrange scenes of jealousy, surveillance, checking calls on the phone, breaking dishes. What can you expect from a person who has been convicted of treason or betrayal? This is not even worth talking about.
More often than not, the fact of the appearance or presence of a rival is not proof that you are not loved.
People often tend not to appreciate the good that they have, but to look for what is lacking in other people on the side. There is no need to rush to extremes, but for the sake of maintaining a relationship with a person for whom there are feelings, you can go to some tricks, light selfishness will be very useful. What is it about? Psychologists recommend that girls communicate, flirt with several young people at the same time. Why? The answer is simple, thus there is no concentration of attention on one person, there is no emergence of certain plans and goals for the future with him.
Having chosen a life partner, why not behave as freely, independently and unobtrusively? After all, it is very cool when, after long years of living together, people remain for each other not only husband and wife, but also great friends! You need to learn to share the interests of the other half. You shouldn't forget about yourself, you should not be afraid to experiment with your appearance, change yourself and your inner world. As soon as peace and tranquility reign in the house, and beautiful romantic evenings with intimate conversations will replace scandals and clarifications, life will become more harmonious. And no matter how the relationship develops, you need to learn to be happy, trust each other, respect each other, appreciate and love, in order for the relationship to become an early paradise on this earth.
