Sometimes our family relationships become so complicated that the marriage is in danger of collapse. It's getting harder and harder to put up with each other. It seems that there is no strength and, most importantly, the desire to understand a loved one. However, most marriages can be saved, you just have to really, really try. Try to follow these rules and you will succeed.
Instructions
Step 1
Try to remember your first date, your first date. After all, everything was so beautiful and romantic. What about your wedding? There was no happier couple than you! How rejoicing you were at the birth of your first child! Remember his first steps, there was no limit to delight. Thus, the first rule: remember only the good.
Step 2
Think: you once loved, didn't you? What has changed? Everything was fine, but everyday difficulties complicated your relationship. You are simply afraid of difficulties: domestic and financial. There was an accumulation of negativity. The quarrels have worsened, the possibility of your further life together is being questioned. But don't be in a hurry. Remember that you overcame all difficulties together. Think how many are still ahead. And only by keeping your marriage together can you overcome them together. Think that you not only loved once, but now love. Rule two: the most important thing is your love.
Step 3
Remember, problems are not a reason for divorce. Don't show negative emotions. Build your relationship so that your significant other understands that you are in the mood for a positive solution to the issue. Be patient. This is the third rule.
Step 4
Remember, maintaining a relationship requires a lot of compromise. Talk to each other calmly, without undue emotion, frankly. Be objective and admit your mistakes. This is the fourth rule.
Step 5
If you cannot solve the problem of keeping the family on your own, contact psychologists or psychotherapists. The main thing is to visit a specialist together and with a positive attitude. Remember, the result of your actions is the preservation of your marriage.
