It is difficult to decide to part with a person with whom a lot is connected. Nudge to such a responsible step can be: insoluble twists and turns in relationships, new feelings, everyday problems.
Important decision
Making a decision to break up is a very crucial step. Before destroying everything, you should analyze the current situation. If a person is very emotional and receptive and is ready to break up with a loved one after each scandal, then in this case you should wait until the storm subsides, calm down and already make a final decision. It is important to have the understanding that the decision to break up can serve as a point in the relationship, and there will be no turning back. You should not check your other half in this way. Playing with feelings will not have a positive effect on relationships. Do not forget about the second chance, if a person is dear and has become truly dear, then you can step over yourself and try to start all over again.
Reasons for parting
The reasons for parting can be completely different, some of them even seem absurd and funny. Couples diverge: due to the lack of common interests, due to constant dirty linen and betrayals, due to dissatisfaction with the appearance of the second half. If there is no more strength to endure, nothing and no one can help revive old feelings, then you should not torment yourself and those who are around. You need to collect all the thoughts in your head, ponder your further existence and disperse once and for all.
If a couple is raising children, then this is an additional obstacle that does not allow them to disperse easily. Here it is already worth thinking not only about yourself and your welfare, but also about children. After all, their psyche has not yet strengthened, and any shock, discord in the family can inflict trauma on them, which will affect their whole life.
Ability to conduct a dialogue
Dialogue is an important aspect in a relationship. You need to be able to communicate, negotiate, find compromise solutions, give in, listen and hear each other. Only in this case can a crack in the relationship be identified in the early stages, which will make it possible to quickly patch it up. All quarrels and resentments accumulate over time, people who once love each other become bitter enemies, and all this happens due to a lack of understanding and communication. It is worth telling your partner that the decision is ripe to leave. Surely, this fact for him will be an impetus for action, or at least for a serious conversation that can save the relationship.
You can tell your parents about your inner experiences. Feelings arose before their eyes, they have a great experience of living together, therefore they can give valuable advice, but the main decision still needs to be made independently.
