Some people sin with backbiting. They can't help but gossip and talk about others. There are several reasons for this - from dissatisfaction with one's own life to banal envy of someone else's success.
Instructions
Step 1
Keep in mind that sometimes people judge others in order to appear better in the eyes of others. This does not require any person to commit a terrible crime, it is enough to simply violate a social norm. In order not to think that the individual approves of such indecent behavior, he pours his voice into the chorus of indignant. It is possible that he himself sins with such views or principles. But until he is caught red-handed, he pretends to be an angel. Such individuals are called prudes.
Step 2
Other individuals tend to condemn others in order to assert themselves at their expense. Such people have low self-esteem. Deep down, they believe that they have not achieved anything in life, but instead of setting themselves ambitious goals and achieving them, they prefer to gloat over the failures of other individuals. In such cases, people speak of anger at themselves, dissatisfaction with their lives. They believe that they were unjustly offended by fate, and come off on others.
Step 3
Some people cling to every excuse to celebrate the failures of those they envy. In the troubles of life of those who have achieved more than themselves, these individuals see a manifestation of some kind of higher justice. This applies not only to envy of acquaintances, colleagues and friends, but also to gloating over failures in the lives of stars. Envious losers hate the rich, the famous, the young, and the beautiful. They are happy to throw mud at them for any reason.
Step 4
Sometimes people judge others without even noticing it. For some grumpy individuals, this behavior has already become a habit. Their negativity is not directed specifically at this person. They just constantly express their dissatisfaction with what is happening. Such people have formed a certain critical attitude, and they can no longer stop. This bilious nature can appear with age, due to a certain circle of friends or health problems.
Step 5
It happens that people condemn others, as they think, rightly. They sincerely resent someone's behavior or words and cannot refrain from criticism. Such individuals should be reminded that violators of their peace of mind may have personal motives to do this and not otherwise. In addition, you should always make allowances for poor health, everyday problems, fatigue and irritation of others. People who like to judge others forgive themselves for such misconduct given the circumstances, but do not adopt this attitude when it comes to those around them.
