It often happens that the family changes their place of residence and the student has to start his studies in a new place. Relationships in the classroom do not always improve immediately, and the child becomes ill at school. Naturally, this also affects academic performance.
Parents can help their sibling find new friends by providing peer interaction outside of school. To do this, it is recommended to invite his classmates to visit, to arrange holidays, encouraging the child to communicate. It is also important to teach your toddler to be interesting. For example, if he knows how to tell funny stories, play the guitar or light a fire, he will have a better chance of making friends with children.
It is necessary to help ensure that the student is not cut off from the team and participates in trips, hikes and other class activities. When a student finishes his lessons, even if he needs to be in time for music or English lessons, it is undesirable to immediately pick him up from school. Otherwise, the child will remain a stranger in the class, in which peers have already become friends with each other.
If the child suffers from stuttering, enuresis, tics, encoporesis or skin disease, this may be a future cause of peer ridicule. It is very important to notice the problem in time and try to cure it. And the teacher should be warned about the child's problems. For example, the need to take medication by the hour.
In order for a student to meet the general requirements of the school, it is necessary to provide him with everything he needs. For example, all students must wear black shorts in physical education classes. Therefore, if the parents, considering it unimportant, buy him pink shorts, classmates will laugh and tease the classmate. It is important that he does not stand out from the general crowd of children by being too poor or unkempt.
If your child is being bullied at school, you can advise him to change his usual behavior. The prevailing stereotype always makes the baby's actions predictable. And usually he behaves according to the scheme set by others. But if he goes beyond standard circumstances and responds in an unexpected way, then he can not only mislead his offenders, but also overcome a difficult situation. For example, instead of hitting your pursuers and crying, you should calmly, looking into their eyes, ask the question: "So what?" or take it and laugh at yourself in response. As a result, the child must do something that is not expected of him at all.
Parents of the child should not deal with his persecutors personally, it is better to inform the psychologist and class teacher. There is no need to rush to protect your baby as soon as a conflict begins with his classmates. Experiencing all stages of a conflict is sometimes very useful, as it helps a growing person to cope with their problems on their own in the future. But here it is important not to overdo it and not to miss the moment when the intervention of adults is simply necessary. This is in the case of the beginning of systematic bullying and bullying of the child by his peers.
Parents often think late about why the child is being bullied and subjected to regular beatings. And this already indicates that the situation was missed and they need to intervene immediately. To begin with, do not send the student to school so that he does not meet with his offenders. This phenomenon cannot be left unpunished, otherwise the offenders will find themselves and another victim. But the showdown with the pursuers in this situation is not the most important event. First of all, it is necessary to help the child survive the psychological trauma so that he does not feel fear of his peers, trusting them.
In order to successfully infuse a daughter or son into a new children's team, it is important for relatives to teach him to be the first to make contact with peers. After all, the relationship in the class is already established - it has its own leaders, ignored and rejected. Therefore, it is highly likely that a beginner will be attacked by peers. Parents should be the first friends of the child so that he can turn to them for advice, help and protection.
