Love is evil. If a woman is in love, she does things for her man that previously seemed completely incomprehensible, uninteresting and abnormal to her. And - with joy!
Life hack for men. By these actions, you can understand that the woman is really in love with you. Look. Check it out.
He seeks to please the parents of the chosen one in every possible way, mainly the mother
A woman, consciously or subconsciously, perceives the mother of her beloved as a potential mother-in-law. To please her is a challenge. And now a healthy lifestyle adherent bakes pies with meat, cooks borscht "like mom's", does wet cleaning without harmful detergents … She even agrees with this strange woman in everything (perhaps, gritting her teeth). In general, he tries with all his might to advise the image of a girl who can be brought into the house.
With dad and other relatives, of course, it's more difficult. But the general tactic - being humble, obedient, showing yourself as homely and loving as possible - works well with everyone in most cases.
And the man thinks: “Maybe she really is the One? Maybe get married?"
Is not shy about the appearance and behavior of a man with whom
On the contrary, it is proud. When a young man tells the same unfunny anecdote for the hundredth time (especially in a company), he genuinely laughs. If he wears "strips" like Shurik in "Obsession", and she is in an evening dress, proudly walks with him by the arm. He unobtrusively tries to attract the owner of a beer belly to a healthy lifestyle, but does not even think about harshly criticizing. With a girlfriend in love, any gentleman will feel the best, intelligent, resourceful, beautiful and desirable.
Always tries to listen
It's good that a woman's brain can simultaneously think about different things. For example, what to cook for dinner, where to go on vacation next year, that Lyuska from the next department has recovered how much … What should he take into account the man's story about the past day ?! And not only accept, but, if necessary, give practical advice ?! For a female "operating system", especially the OP of a woman in love, this load is not at all big.
"Extinguishes" the anger of his man
With all her might, she does not allow the chosen one to be angry with her (because there are such stupid ladies who almost provoke assault in their direction). Transfers the conversation or leads away from unpleasant situations when strangers can become the object of anger. He does not send his MCH to “beat the bullies in the face” in a dark alley (although, of course, this does not mean that his girlfriend does not need to be protected in case of real danger).
Never gossips about the chosen one with her friends
Only praises him! And then, if asked. Knows that it is better to be silent about happiness. And here is this: "And my something is such a scoundrel, he does not give flowers, after sex he turns to the wall and does not call for marriage," etc. He keeps things with him. If you don't like something, he will discuss it personally with his man, ask his mother for advice, anonymously create a topic on the forum, or go to a psychologist.
Agrees with his beloved in everything
Including - with outright nonsense like "All fools, I'm the only good one." “Yes, dear, you are the best,” is the answer of a wise woman in love. Maybe she doesn’t agree on the inside, maybe she herself would have done differently in the described situation … To gently direct is an art. It's always best to agree first that the man is right.
Does not provoke quarrels and does not consider it shameful to put up
Anything can happen in life. Lovers sometimes quarrel. To reconcile quickly, often first, not to be angry and not to take revenge is a very clear sign of a woman in love. It was - yes, but it's gone. Everything will be fine now. Agree, with such installations it is much easier and more pleasant to live.
Caring for a man sincerely and unobtrusively
He makes sure that he eats right (and for this you often have to cook yourself), does not get carried away with alcohol (does not pull, of course, a glass from his hands - this is unwise, but tries not to provoke), dresses for the weather and generally does not risk his health. Sometimes, however, a woman in love "goes too far" and runs the risk of turning into a loving mom. But … let's forgive her for it, if she is not on purpose. It corrects itself, if something is wrong, it is also fast.
Supports her man's hobbies and lifestyle
This does not mean that a city girl is obliged to go on hikes to the mountains every day and go kayaking, live for months by the fire in the ward and sing to the guitar if she comes across such a tourist. There is no need to specifically become a vegetarian or skydive. But at least not prohibiting your beloved from fishing, not turning up your nose at his friends (even extreme lovers, even philatelists, even vegans) - quite in the spirit of a woman in love.
Falling in love is so natural
Perhaps the main property of a woman in love. All the signs that we have listed above (do not argue, always support, take care, etc.) - appear automatically, but do not cause inconvenience. A woman does not rape herself when she acts to please the chosen one, his friends and mother. Then there is a much greater chance that falling in love will not go away with time. And that a man will likewise be in love long and hard.
