There is a widespread misconception among young people that the most important thing in meeting a girl they like is to find out her phone number. However, in fact, it is no less important what exactly you will talk to her about on this phone.
Preliminary preparation
The impression you make on the girl largely depends on the first telephone conversation. In the end, the statement that "women love with their ears" did not appear out of nowhere. Please note that the majority of girls prefer rather long-term communication, although, of course, there are also laconic young ladies. However, it is worth preparing seriously for the conversation. If you are not a master of the spoken genre, capable of wittily improvising on any topic, it is better to come up with at least a basis for future communication in advance. Naturally, it is impossible to predict the course of a conversation, but it is in your power to imagine its beginning, as well as to formulate several main topics.
Your subscriber should not have the feeling that you are calling her out of boredom or “for show”, so try to clearly define for yourself what exactly you want to achieve with this conversation. Usually, the purpose of these calls is to ask for a date, but in order to increase your chances of success, it is advisable to do some preparation. Before an important call, tune in the right mood, relax, make sure that nothing bothers you. The impression of a romantic call can be greatly spoiled by extraneous sounds, so choose a convenient time and place.
How to conduct a conversation
If this is your first telephone conversation, then first you need to introduce yourself and recall the circumstances of your acquaintance. Then find out if your conversation partner is comfortable talking, because it is not easy to maintain a romantic conversation on the run or in a lecture. Once you are satisfied that everything is in order, you can proceed directly to the main part of the conversation.
Naturally, first of all, it is worth asking about the girl's mood, her affairs and plans. Many psychologists argue that listening to your interlocutor is just as important as the art of storytelling. Of course, if a girl gives you the opportunity to express yourself, you need to try to find a topic that will be of interest to her: try to avoid sports and political topics, any negative news, do not get hung up on computer games and computer topics in general. It is better to discuss the latest TV shows, new films or favorite books. If we are talking about mutual acquaintances, it is better to refrain from any harsh assessments, because the opinion of your subscriber about certain people may differ significantly from yours.
In fact, many women perceive any communication more from an emotional position than from the point of view of information content, so it is important for you, first of all, to convey emotions. The way you speak can be much more meaningful than what you say. And, of course, do not forget to ask questions, because a sincere interest in the interlocutor is one of the best ways to win him over.
