People have different temperaments and personality types. There are very positive and funny people out there, dating with whom, anywhere, will seem like a fairy tale. But, besides such people, there are also bores who are difficult to please with anything.
An unexpected nuisance
Sometimes it happens in life: you get to know a person, you communicate with him, it seems that his appearance is pleasant, and he is a good person. But suddenly one day it turns out that he is a terrible bore. What to do in this case? And abruptly ending communication will not be very nice, and it is very difficult to communicate with him. He is constantly dissatisfied with something, grumbles and "drips on his brains." A person, even with iron patience, can break loose and say nasty things in the direction of a newly made bore friend. You need to have a lot of imagination in order to somehow entertain the bore and have a good time in his company. It is worth going through all the options first before deciding on the first step.
Often you want to give up everything and stop communicating with this person, but something stops, either attachment, or feelings that have already flared up.
It is impossible to remake a person, especially a bore, but you can get used to any character, if only there is a desire. To impress a bore, you need to invite him out on a date and never reproach him for being bored. But where to invite a person who is always dissatisfied with something and with whom, in fact, it is not easy to talk? This issue needs to be taken very seriously.
A wise decision
A person with whom it is not possible to talk about something can be invited somewhere, where it is not necessary to talk at all. For example, a movie is a place where there is no need to have a conversation. But patience will be needed after the session. After all, after watching the film, you need to go to a cafe, drink coffee and discuss the film. Here the bore will express everything he wanted to say. But while watching, he will most likely be silent and these will be the most beautiful moments of the whole date.
You can also invite a bore to the pool, it will turn out, firstly, very unusual and besides, he will be busy and will not be able to get bored.
But there is a nuance, if the bore cannot swim, you are unlikely to be able to organize a date in this particular place.
A winning date will be a trip to the ski lodge. If a boring friend loves skiing, your date will go off with a bang. And you can have a good time and everyone will be satisfied. While skiing on the slopes, there will be no time for conversations, and not everyone will want to spend energy.
In general, of course, there are no special places for nerds. But there is always a way out. You can go with a bore to any place where you need to move a lot and talk less, or where you can't talk at all - cinema, philharmonic, opera, theater. It's not a bad time to spend, even with a bore, you can go to the rink. If he does not know how to skate, this will be a great reason to teach him how to skate and, perhaps, if the bore likes it, you can even get his gratitude in return and less boring conversations.
