Love without reciprocity is a very common occurrence. Moreover, not only guys, but also young girls suffer from it. However, feelings may not come immediately, sometimes they can and even need to be achieved.
Instructions
Step 1
If you realize that you've fallen in love with a guy who doesn't love you yet, take action. It's not worth talking about the appearance, since you probably yourself know that you always have to be at your best. But even if your appearance is not very attractive to the representative of the stronger sex you like, you do not need to despair and get depressed. They say that women love caring men. The same goes for guys. They appreciate girls who are caring. Try to become a friend to your beloved. Surround him with attention and warmth. If he often comes to visit you in a friendly way, cook him a delicious lunch or dinner, make him coffee and offer him tea. He must understand that you are a good and economic girl.
Step 2
Hear what the guy you like has to say about his former relationship. If there is trust between you, most likely, he at least once could have mentioned that the passion with which he had parted before behaved in one way or another. He could speak negatively about some of her habits and behaviors in front of you. Listen carefully to everything that he tells you, and do not repeat other people's mistakes. Always carry out a mental analysis of how you act in certain situations, think about how the young man reacted to your actions, and what conclusions he made at the same time.
Step 3
When you have a strong and strong friendship that you feel confident in, you can try to take action. Hint to him casually that you would be very happy if you had such a wonderful young man like him. Tell him that he has a pretty good looks and a great personality. Compliments like these will make the guy think that, most likely, you have more than just friendly warm feelings for him. He may not have considered you as a potential girlfriend before, but your flirting will lead him to such thoughts. If you did everything right, the man should understand that you are really a worthy and faithful companion in life. But he himself will hardly tell you anything after that. The processes will start so far only in his head.
Step 4
The next stage is jealousy. Since your lover has realized that you have sympathy for him, he may develop a sense of ownership towards you. Now you just have to temporarily shorten meetings with him or refuse them altogether. Tell him that a young man has begun to look after you, but you are not yet sure if you want more or not. At this point, your friend should understand that he has a risk of losing you, and if he has any feelings for you, he will definitely tell you about it.
