You have found a soul mate and are eager to build a joint life with her and find family happiness. But the connection of your destinies to the sounds of Mendelssohn's march is constantly postponed for one reason or another. In such a situation, your desire to speed up the wedding is quite logical and understandable.
Instructions
Step 1
Is the wedding postponed due to the indecision of your loved one or his unwillingness to legitimize the relationship? Then try to nudge your partner into marriage. Only you need to do this gently, without exerting pressure, otherwise such persistent behavior can scare your soul mate and further alienate you. Surround the doubting marriage partner with love, care, and understanding. Show him that you love him as much as you loved no one before, that you are ready to join your own destiny with him and live your life, jointly overcoming all difficulties. The confidence that he (she) is loved (loved), and further relationships promise to be smooth and reliable, may well speed up the decision about the wedding.
Step 2
If the parents of one of the future spouses are against marriage and, without hiding it, bully the couple in every possible way, it is not surprising that their behavior can interfere with the wedding. The problem can be solved only by the partner whose parents are against the conclusion of a marriage union, because only he can persuade his parents not to interfere with the feelings of their beloved child, by the way, a completely adult person who is able to independently control his own destiny. Talk to your parents, find out what worries them, why they are hostile against your decision. Only by explaining to them that they are obliged to respect your opinion and put up with the choice of a life partner, no matter how wrong he may seem to them, you can speed up the wedding without spoiling the relationship in the family.
Step 3
Sometimes the wedding can be postponed indefinitely due to financial difficulties. The purchase of engagement rings, wedding dresses and a festive banquet require a lot of money. The best solution would be a bank loan. Find a bank with the most lenient credit program and divide the loan obligations equally - this way you will pay off the loan much faster.
