In our society, it is customary for a man to be the first to take initiative in a relationship. It is he who is supposed to come up and get acquainted, make an appointment, make an offer. But men, no less than women, are afraid of being rejected and therefore often do not dare to approach the girl they like. In this case, a smart woman can give the chosen one hope for reciprocity with special signs, so that he does not fear to take the initiative.
Use a look and a smile. Just do not need to constantly stare at a man without blinking, it will make an unpleasant impression. Better cast an interested glance at him, look for a few seconds, and then look away. Look at him again in a couple of minutes. When you meet a man you like, smile at him. For some men, this may be enough to walk up and start a conversation.
If that wasn't enough, try adding erotic movements. Take a sexier pose, cross your legs, tilt your head back and shake your hair, play with a curl, winding it around your finger, lick your lips. Usually, it is these movements that are considered a sign of sexual interest and will give a man hope for reciprocity.
Giving hope to someone you know is even easier: flirt a little with him, make a couple of compliments, try to touch him sometimes when you walk by or talk. Let him know that you have a lot in common, share his interests and hobbies, enter his social circle, try to catch his eye more often.
Ask his advice on various little things, always listen to his answers and say how valuable they are to you. Take an interest in his life. Let him know how extraordinary he is and how strange it is that he is still alone without a partner. Just do not overdo it, if you press on him, he will decide that you are too intrusive and will not want to meet with you. In everything you need to observe the measure.
Never start flirting with another man in the presence of someone you are interested in. This can scare the person away and present you in an unfavorable light. Do not rush things, perhaps the man has already noticed your interest, but he needs time to respond to his feelings. Give him the opportunity to understand himself and make sure that he was looking for you all this time.
If enough time has passed, and your man is still hesitant to make an appointment with you, it's time for more decisive hints. Start a conversation about an upcoming corporate party, a concert, an exhibition, a new movie in the cinema and make it clear that you would love to go there if you had someone.
Ask him to come to your house and help you with something that requires a purely man's hand: pinning a shelf, putting together a piece of furniture, fixing a faucet or a computer, and the like. At the same time, casually mention that you have no other man who could do this, and that you will be alone with him in the apartment.
